Victor Marchese - Counseling

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	You know I love you - why do I have to say it? Sound familiar? That is perhaps the biggest "COP OUT" line ever! Anyone who thinks that they don't need to tell their partner that they are loved from time to time is not only seriously mistaken, but their relationship is headed for trouble. Everything needs attention to run smoothly in our lives: our cars, boats, computer, houses, even our bodies. So why is it that we think we can just leave our relationships on "auto pilot" and everything will be just fine! The truth is it won't be "just fine." Everyone needs not only to be loved, but to feel loved. If you leave that part out of your relationship your partner will look elsewhere for it.

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	Men amd women both are equally guilty of this lack of intimacy on a verbal and intimate level. For many it has to do with our childhood and upbringing. Many came from families that were not very demonstrative about showing their feelings and emotions.


	Most of us set out in life to "subconsciously" sabotage our lives and our relationships to bring about a self-fulfilling prophecy! "See I knew she or they would never love me" "I knew she'd cheat on me." "I'm not really lovable." And on and on it goes... It doesn't have to happen to you or your loved ones. The sooner you address these issues the better your chances are to avoid any serious and unhealthy situations in your relationships and your life. You are not alone, nor are you abnormal or sick. It's just the way you were programmed without knowing it. You can change the programming with the aid of a good therapist...I urge you to do so....


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